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| Welcome to the Parent Coach's "Point and Click Behavioral Contract"! | |||
| What is the "Point and Click Behavioral Contract"? As parents, establishing the solid and realistic rules we want our children to follow can be quite challenging. The Contract will help you clarify your rules and develop a plan for following through with your expectations. Most parents recognize that we make mistakes when we are upset and displeased with our children's behavior. However, we know how our children are going to behave before the problem ever arises. Thus, the contract will help you plan for those most common problems before they ever occur, and help you avoid making one of those common parenting mistakes. The contract will take you through the following 5 steps, and when you are finished, you just "Point and Click" and your printer will produce a contract personalized for your child.
The wake up call - Look in the mirror!
Think
of the most problematic behavior you see in your child; you know, the
one that bugs you the most. Have you got it in your mind? Now, here is
the wake up call! Whatever you are now holding in your mind represents
the area that you are doing the poorest job of as a parent. It wouldn't
be "number one" if you were doing a great job handling it! That means
you need to rethink how you are managing the particular behavior. The
Contract can help!!!
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